The Barclay family, 3 generations of Jeff and Cindy, children, married spouses, and 22 grandchildren outside.

God’s Still Writing Our Story

For 46 years, we’ve been building a life rooted in faith and family, and the unshakeable belief that God is at work in every chapter. We’re Jeff and Cindy Barclay- co-founders of CrossGen Life.

Our story has been a beautiful and complex tapestry- from the joy of raising 7 children, to the bittersweet reality of having one waiting for us in heaven. Through every season, God continues to write a story far richer than anything we could imagine.

Today, that story includes five wonderful “sons & daughters” in loves, & a lively, ever growing tribe of 22 grandchildren. Life with our youngest, who has down syndrome, fills our lives with insights about the unique blessings, abilities, and perspectives each person brings to shape our family & our legacy.

Here’s to Connecting Your Generations and Creating Your Unique Legacies.

Jeff and Cindy

The JOY in our Journey far outweighs any difficulties, sorrows or challenges we face. God is lovingly faithful! We’re excited to share His call to CONNECT the Generations and invest in eternal faithfilled legacy.

For the Lord is good and His love endures forever; His faithfulness continues through ALL generations. Psalm 100: 5

Our Mission

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For the Family

To Connect Generations and build strong, healthy homes. We equip families to cultivate a vibrant Christian heritage and create a lasting, unshakable legacy of faith for generations to come.

For the Church

To cultivate and support intergenerational ministry that unites the body of Christ, strengthens gospel impact, and ensures that faith is successfully passed to the next generation.

Latest 3 posts- click to read more….

CGL Tribe
A Never Ending Inheritance
A Never Ending Inheritance

Feeling exhausted by the pressure to raise "perfect" kids? Discover why a lasting legacy doesn't depend on earthly wealth, but on eternal spiritual blessings.

Pouring Into the Generations
Pouring Into the Generations

Building a generational family isn’t about striving or exhausting our own limited wells. Discover the beautiful rhythm of divine overflow, and how God pours fresh, living water directly into the hearts of our children and grandchildren.

It’s Never Too Late: Finding Family Wholeness (Part 3)
It’s Never Too Late: Finding Family Wholeness (Part 3)

Real relationship repair doesn’t happen magically. In Part 3 of our series, we look past the surface-level cosmetics—the paint, carpets, and curtains—and invite our Spiritual Contractor to do the heavy lifting at the ground level. Discover why uncovering hidden, broken plumbing is actually the first step toward building a family house that stands strong.

Welcome to CGL Tribe Stories

We believe that a family’s legacy isn't built all at once—it is woven together through small, intentional moments that bridge the generations. Whether you are navigating the tender seasons of family life, seeking deeper intergenerational community, or looking to anchor your home in a vibrant Christian heritage, you have found a place to belong.

Here, we share raw reflections, encouragement, and practical wisdom for the journey. God is still writing your family's story, and every chapter matter

What People Are Saying About CrossGen Life

  • “CrossGen Life is a game-changer for the church. This bold and inspired movement reflects as Acts 2:47 experience of an intergenerational community truly worshipping God and sharing lives.”

    Dr. Norman Patterson DDS; D.Min. & Legacy Coalition Global Partners Liaison; Hospitality Host

  • “Jeff & Cindy Barclay are trusted, faithful leaders who consistently demonstrate a heart for Christ, His Church & the next generation. Their vision through CrossGen Life to bring generations together in meaningful, gospel-centered relationships is both timely & deeply needed I wholeheartedly affirm their character & this important ministry.”

    Dr. David Beauchamp Senior Vice-President of ENGAGE

  • “The Barclays are excellent role models of Christian grandparenting with a heart for passing on faith to the next generation.”

    Diana Ignatius Founder & Co-Director: Community Widows Ministry

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Inspirational quote graphic on identity in Christ: 'We must first connect to God to truly discover who He created us to be.' Features the CrossGen Life gold metallic border and leaf logo."
"CrossGen Life 'Blessing' resource graphic. Christian multi-generational relationship quote about speaking blessings to strengthen family connections. Gold metallic border with leaf logo."
CrossGen Life Inspirational quote on spiritual transformation: 'Through small, faithful steps with God, our relationships are reshaped & renewed, creating lasting change across generations.' Features the CrossGen Life gold metallic aesthetic and leaf